Post by jamesd on Jan 13, 2013 19:40:06 GMT -5
Hi Johnny,
I direct approached a very cute girl and after 3-4 minutes, i got her number because she had to go (supposedly).
I wasn't too happy about that number because it was screaming "flake". Plus, the girl seemed very shy (and young) so that doesnt help.
I sent her a text to arrange a drink and to my surprise she said yes and was very friendly in her text.
Then we met for drink and she was very friendly and all but she had quite weak eye contact and wasn't talking a lot, so i had to talk more than her. Then i talked about more suggestive stuff and she wasnt very comfortable with it. But at many time during the date i got her to react more energetically to cheeky stuff i was saying and by the end of the date she was singing some funny stuff as a joke so she was a bit more relaxed (after she had that drink)
Kino was almost inexistent because i felt it was too much. I felt like this first date it to try to get her to trust me and feel more comfortable with me.
But after the date i felt like a wuss even though i'm not sure if I could've done anything about it. She is very hot but very shy at the same time.
What do you do in a situation where you are with a very shy girl? Do you wait for second date to go more kino and seductive with her?
Thanks for your suggestions!
James
I direct approached a very cute girl and after 3-4 minutes, i got her number because she had to go (supposedly).
I wasn't too happy about that number because it was screaming "flake". Plus, the girl seemed very shy (and young) so that doesnt help.
I sent her a text to arrange a drink and to my surprise she said yes and was very friendly in her text.
Then we met for drink and she was very friendly and all but she had quite weak eye contact and wasn't talking a lot, so i had to talk more than her. Then i talked about more suggestive stuff and she wasnt very comfortable with it. But at many time during the date i got her to react more energetically to cheeky stuff i was saying and by the end of the date she was singing some funny stuff as a joke so she was a bit more relaxed (after she had that drink)
Kino was almost inexistent because i felt it was too much. I felt like this first date it to try to get her to trust me and feel more comfortable with me.
But after the date i felt like a wuss even though i'm not sure if I could've done anything about it. She is very hot but very shy at the same time.
What do you do in a situation where you are with a very shy girl? Do you wait for second date to go more kino and seductive with her?
Thanks for your suggestions!
James
